Three Discussions That Demystify Death
The Hockessin Library
July 25 from 1 pm to 3 pm
Death and Denial: Why do so many of us avoid thinking or talking about death—until we have no choice? This presentation explores how denial shapes American attitudes toward dying, grief, and end-of-life care, from fears of pain to misunderstandings about hospice. By confronting this discomfort, we open the door to healthier conversations, intentional planning, and a more honest relationship with mortality.
Discussion topic: Which of these topics discussed have you encountered or believed?
August 8 from 1 pm to 3 pm
Death and Art: Art has always helped humans confront mortality. This presentation traces how artists across cultures and centuries have represented death through beauty, fear, humor, and reverence. From ancient tomb paintings to medieval memento mori to contemporary installations, we’ll examine how creative expression helps us mourn, remember, and make meaning of life’s final chapter.
Discussion topic: Is there a work of art—visual, literary, musical—that has spoken to you and helped you process grief or think about death differently?
August 22 from 1 pm to 3 pm
Death and Sustainability: Modern burial practices take a serious toll on the planet, from embalming chemicals to caskets to cremation. This talk explores the environmental impact of death and introduces sustainable alternatives, including home funerals and natural burial. Discover how ecological values can shape how we die—and what we leave behind.
Discussion topic: How do your values—spiritual, environmental, or otherwise—affect how you think about burial or cremation?
Free
Next Chat: July 25, 1-3 at Hockessin Library
Death Chat with Cookies is a relaxed and fun event to discuss death. Sharing our experiences, philosophies, and cultural traditions around death and dying not only reminds us of our common humanity, it helps us remember the awe of being alive and prioritize what is meaningful to our own lives. The free and open discussions are often surprisingly liberating and educational, even for those who have already organized and prepared their end-of-life plans. People who have attended such events say it has been easier to talk to their friends and family about their wishes. Join the conversation to share your thoughts, philosophy, and experiences. I’ll bring the cookies, you bring your drinks.
Free
Defining Death With Dignity
More and more Americans are rejecting modern funeral and burial practices, demanding a larger role in determining how and when they die, are memorialized and buried. This has given rise to terms like Death with Dignity, the Good Death Movement and The Death Positive Movement. Join Linda Gould, Death Doula and end-of-life consultant, to explore what is meant by these terms and how they might apply to you and your beliefs. The presentation includes a brief history of the major changes in death and burial practices, key points that help define a ‘good’ death, the Medical Aid in Dying bills that many state legislatures (including Delaware) are considering, and the rising interest in natural burials. Q & A and discussion included.
Free
Artful Meditation
Artful meditation combines the therapeutic qualities of mindfulness and creative expression to help manage anxiety, depression, grief, and stress. By engaging in intentional art-making while remaining present in the moment, this practice allows individuals to process emotions, calm the mind, and cultivate inner peace.
No art or experience is necessary.
$15 (includes materials)
Share Your Grief
Grief becomes more manageable when shared, and we all have stories to tell—whether to help others navigate their grief, release our own emotions, share funny moments, or seek emotional support. So, share your stories of life, love, grief, healing, and hope.
Free
Artful Awakening: Exploring Yourself Through Creativity
This workshop is designed for intuitive self-exploration and self-development using prompts, art, and directed activities.
No art skills or experience necessary.
$20 (includes materials)